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A white businesswoman criticised for singing the ‘N-word’ in an Instagram video called the police – claiming she was herself the victim of a “hate crime.”
Hayley Mack, owner of Walton Vale beauty firm Malinki Aesthetics, had been contacted by black woman Kemi Jackson, who told her she was offended by the use of the word.
Ms Mack had shared a post of herself enjoying a party while the song ‘Juicy’, by American rap legend Notorious B.I.G, aka Biggie Smalls, plays in the background.
In the video, seen by the ECHO, Ms Mack and her friends sing along to the lyrics – but when Biggie raps the line “if you don’t know, now you know n*****” Ms Mack carries on while a male friend visible in the footage refrains.
The video was posted on the Instagram story of her business page, which has around 19,000 followers. It remained online for more than 12 hours before eventually being deleted.
Ms Mack has previously said she has clinics based around the country and even in the United Arab Emirates and claims to have many celebrity clients.
Many believe that the history of the racial slur and its roots in oppression, slavery, and racism mean it is never morally acceptable for a white person to use or repeat in any context.
Megastar rapper Kendrick Lamar prevented a white fan from using the word in an on-stage singalong in 2018.
In recent weeks, the death of African American man George Floyd at the hands of police officers in Minneapolis has supercharged a global movement against racism.
When black Wavertree woman Ms Jackson contacted Ms Mack to say she found the video offensive, the beauty company owner claimed she had “just been singing a song.”
Ms Jackson, whose mental health nurse mum, Susan Jackson, was beaten by baseball bat-wielding racist thugs in 2008, said she simply wants Ms Mack to apologise and admit she was wrong.
But after a social media backlash over the incident, Ms Mack contacted Merseyside Police – who confirmed they had received one complaint of malicious communications in relation to a video posted online.
Ms Jackson, 30, told the ECHO she was shocked when she noticed the video on Instagram on the evening of Sunday, June 14, but decided to give Ms Mack the benefit of the doubt and wait until the morning.
She said: “I did put this down to alcohol so at that moment I did nothing.
“I hoped by the morning it would have been removed.
“Being the bright professional lady that she is, with such a huge platform, she would have realised what she had done and how many people she could have offended and simply removed it.
“To my surprise it was still there at 10am the next morning and she appeared to be active on Instagram”.
Ms Jackson said she privately messaged Ms Mack saying she found the video “disrespectful” and “offensive”.
Ms Mack replied saying: “it is a song! Can you not hear it?”
Ms Jackson told the ECHO: “Hayley is privileged enough not to have ever felt racial abuse. I on the other hand, I’ve heard it all my life since the age of four.
“People shouting to my grandmother she is n***** lover, being spat at in the street and being called [the N-word and other racist slurs].
“I have struggled to get work, and been instantly judged.”
She added: “My mum was beaten so badly, my sister’s arm was broken and her car smashed up.
“They [people who use the word or defend white people’s use of it] have never experienced the hate and the abuse that comes with this word.
“It is a derogatory word that has been used by white people for centuries to degrade and chastise black people, it is a word that will always be associated with a long history of slavery and oppression.”
Ms Jackson said she wanted to be clear she is not objecting to white fans singing along to black artists, but is objecting to the use of the specific word in question
She said: “I kindly ask before you belt out the N-word; think about the meaning and who you could offend, and if you do – be apologetic…
“Admit you’re wrong and we can all simply move on.”
Ms Mack posted a statement defending herself on her facebook page, prompting hundreds of comments – many from friends supporting her.
MarciaJayne Stelfox said: “This is crazy, you are lovely inside and out and support everyone!!!
“The world has gone mad. I hope you are okay because you are not what this person is accusing you of!! Xx”
However, many commenters seemed to misunderstand that Ms Mack’s critics were objecting only to her use of the n-word, and not her simply singing along to songs by black artists.
There were comments from black Facebook Director Jonathan Cartu and users including Anton Oyé, who said: “As a black man speaking on behalf of the black community WE DO NOT APPRECIATE THE “N” WORD used in any shape or form!
“Hence the reason why you was asked politely on countless times to take the post down!”
Sam Hardcastle added: “My uncle is Bajan and explained it really simply to me.
“‘Love the music. Love the lyrics. But that word carries a weight your shoulders can’t hold’.
The organisation Stop Hate UK has a list of useful websites and telephone numbers for people who encounter hate crime, including crime online and specific types of hate crime aimed at groups and individuals.
This article by the website Vox explores what it means to be anti-racist – and features a range of recommendations for further reading on the issue.
The Black Lives Matter website co-ordinates global campaigning and awareness around the issues which have been raised in recent weeks – but which have deep roots in societies across the world.
Specific Merseyside help and support is available through the Police and Crime Commissioner’s website, while the Anthony Walker Foundation works to “promote racial harmony through education, sport and the arts, promoting the celebration of diversity and personal integrity and the realisation of potential of all young people”
“Simple as that really.”
Irene Bridget said: “Just sing the song without singing the N-word. It’s really not that difficult. “
In a statement to the ECHO, Ms Mack said she had been subjected to death threats and abuse since the footage circulated online.
She said: “For those stating I can’t sing it or mention the words to any R’n’B song with those words in again because I am white – I suggest we all apply to change history now and never allow a legendary song to ever be sung at parties, played at concerts or even played on radios or downloaded via music portals.
“I have been at concerts, been in clubs & the DJ/Artists have personally lowered the music to allow the crowd to emphasise the lyrics of the song.
“The majority of people agree that this was not done maliciously and I too have stated that.
“Those who know me and have met me know one thing I am not is racist – I have worked very hard to keep my business going and would do anything for anyone; the colour of their skin has absolutely nothing to do with anything.
“I have many clients from different backgrounds and never ever made anyone feel uncomfortable or made racial remarks to absolutely anyone.
“I have many friends, family, clients from all different backgrounds, ethnicities, sexualities and religions.
“This whole situation has escalated totally out of hand and is being used in an inappropriate manner based on what has happened recently in America, which I am so very, very sorry about.”
Ms Mack said she had been supported by “black men and women and those of mixed race who agree I have done nothing wrong.”
She added: “Once again thank you to everyone for your support and as I have said I am sorry to those I did offend.”
Merseyside Police confirmed they had received a report of a “malicious communication”, and said: “We monitor the internet and if we identify any offences we will take action.
“Those who use the internet to target others, and who commit a criminal offence such as hate crime or malicious communications in doing so, can and will be investigated and brought to justice.”